Bud Morrow Oct 18th 1956 - Jul 13th 2013
Beloved Friend to All Life Story Film 1st Annual Ride for Bud (pictures by Deb Pinkster Young)
Harry
“Bud” Morrow was a big man, with a big life and a bigger heart, a heart he
shared with all who knew him. Bud’s life leaves a legacy so rich in family,
in friends and in memory. Bud never did anything halfway, and he loved those
around him the same way he lived his life, always headlong and wholehearted.
Bud’s story began on a picture-perfect fall day in 1956, as the pumpkins
were put on porches around the little town of Kankakee, Illinois. Those were
such fascinating times in this country, with Elvis Presley, Marilyn Monroe,
and Bobby Fischer making headlines everywhere. The Yankees’ Don Larsen
pitched the only perfect game in World Series history that October, but over
in Kankakee, Harry and Gloria (Corden) Morrow were busy celebrating a
one-of-a-kind event all their own. On October 18, 1956, a warm, sunny fall
Thursday, the couple had their third child, a little boy they named Harry,
but who would forever be known as Bud.
Bud joined his older brother Oren and big sister
Julia in the family’s Kankakee home. Living in a southern
suburb of Chicago, Bud naturally grew up rooting for the
Chicago Bears football team as a kid. When he was a boy he
watched the Bears win the 1963 NFL Championship, which
solidified his loyalty forever.
When Bud was in middle school, his family packed up and
moved 177 miles away to the little factory town called
Comstock, Michigan. Bud began going to Comstock Schools,
though he’d find much more than new classmates and courses
there.
There Bud met a beautiful young blonde named Jorene Verburg,
and the sparks flew between them right from the start — not
all in a good way, either! Bud was quite smitten with Jorene
from the get-go, and wanted to take her bike for a spin. She
agreed, but he ended up wrecking it! Not the first
impression he was hoping for, but Bud was undeterred. In
fact, he went home that day and told his mom he’d marry that
girl someday! Bud never gave up easily.
She was just 14, and he was 18, but he eventually won her
heart, and before they knew it, they were getting a fresh
start as husband and wife, just like he had predicted. The
young couple married on a mild Monday, December 8, 1975, and
settled in nearby Paw Paw. There Bud completed his GED and
eventually began working at Menasha Corporation, the nearby
paper mill in Otsego.
Being the loyal, all-in kind of guy he was, Bud stayed at
Menasha virtually his entire working career, even rejoining
the mill after it closed and reopened as USG Paper Mill. He
worked hard, but it provided a good life for him and his
wife, and soon, their growing family.
Bud and Jorene had three wonderful children over the years,
who brought Bud so much pride and joy. Together with Jorene,
his son Jason and daughters Andrea and Stephanie were the
light of Bud’s life.
And what a life it was. As Bud always said, “Life is good.”
That was his personal catchphrase, the kind of saying only a
perpetually positive, fun-loving man like Bud would use, and
he used it often.
Bud wasn’t happy unless he was sharing his life with the
people around him, either. He was warm and friendly, funny
and fun-loving, always ready for a good time, a good party,
a good challenge. He was a jokester, too, and loved to make
people laugh.
Bud and Jorene enjoyed their dream home on Pine Lake in
Plainwell, which was the central hub of entertainment and so
many great memories through the years. Being the adventurous
man he was, Bud loved to travel, but loved his lake home
even more. It gave the hardworking man the feeling of always
being on vacation when he was there, whether it was relaxing
on the deck, or taking the boat out with friends and
neighbors.
Being so close to his birthday, Halloween was one of Bud’s
favorite holidays, and he celebrated in grand style each
year. He loved putting on big parties for his family and
friends, always keeping his costume a secret until “showtime.”
He also loved to scare the trick-or-treaters each year, too!
That was Bud, though: always all-in and headlong, nothing
halfway. He was a very active man, who loved to run and bike
his whole life. His garage became a shrine to his many road
races through the years, every numbered bib a fond memory, a
good challenge. He ran and biked right to the end, running
the Borgess Hospital 5k, and even completing a 100-mile bike
ride recently. He’d even been planning and training for a
bike trip to Colorado. Bikes were one of Bud’s favorite
passions, and he collected some true beauties. Some he
called his “Cadillac” bikes, worth more than his own car!
Bud had many loves in his life, from going golfing with
friends, to listening to the blues or classic rock, to a
home-cooked dinner and his mom’s hush puppies. He followed
the Bears win or lose, and rooted for the Michigan
Wolverines, too.
But the most important part of Bud’s life was his family and
friends, and he left no doubt in their minds. Bud always saw
the good in people, and he told everybody, “Love ya, man,”
in the genuine, heartwarming way only he could. Bud was a
big man, with a heart so much bigger than his stature.
Bud was also the kind of husband who left daily love notes
for Jorene, helped his son with home improvement projects,
and ran races with his daughter. As the years progressed,
Bud also doted on his five grandchildren, Alyssa, Jordan,
Alivia, Dallas, and Annabelle, and anxiously awaited his
sixth grandchild, as well.
Sadly, Bud passed away on Saturday, July 13, 2013, at the
age of 56. He was a big man, with a bigger heart, a heart he
shared with all around him. Wherever he went, whatever he
did, Bud always lived the way he loved, headlong and
wholehearted. “Life is good,” he always said, and he was
right.
Bud Morrow was a great man with a good life, a life we were
so lucky to share with him. He will be so greatly missed.
Bud is survived by his wife of 37 years, Jorene; three
children: Jason (Lacey) Morrow, of Plainwell; Andrea Morrow,
of Plainwell; Stephanie (Ryan) Meninga, of Kalamazoo; five
grandchildren, with one on the way: Alyssa, Jordan, Alivia,
Dallas, and Annabelle. He is also survived by his sister:
Julia (Jerry) Fecke, of IL; mother-in-law: Joann Verburg-Henry;
brother and sister-in-laws: Ardell Morrow, of TN; sister and
brother-in-laws: Sherry Verburg, of Plainwell; Steve and
Arlene Verburg, of Paw Paw; Scott and Ebie Longshore, of Paw
Paw; Trent and Chris Bennett, of Paw Paw; and many nieces
and nephews. He is preceded in death by his parents: Harry
and Gloria Morrow; brother: Oren Morrow; father-in-law: Rene
Verburg and brother-in-law: Rene Verburg.